Ithasgenerallybeennoticedthattherelationshipbetweenfatherandsonisoftenfullofconflicts,especiallyinthegrowingupageoftheson.Thefollowingfourfactorsmaygiverisetoaconflict.（1）.Power—Men’sneedofpowerisaninbuilttrait.Inadolescence,boysgenerallybecomealotmoreaggressiveduetohormonalchangesandthisisalsothetimewhenheisgraduatingfromaboytoaman.Thepresenceofanothermanwiththepowerhewantstoachievecanbedifficulttoaccept.Forthefather,anadolescentsonisasgoodasakidanditisdifficulttounderstandhisdesirestotakeupresponsibility.Inthissituation,itisbetterforthefathertotreathissonlikeaman.（2）.Expectation—Afatherliveshisdreamsthroughhisson.Hemaywanttofulfillallhisunsatisfiedneedsthroughtheson.Thiscanbealotofburdenontheson.Hehashisowndreamsandtherighttofulfillthemfirst.Amanwhoholdsmorepowerinthehouseanddenieshisaccesstohisowndreamscaneruptaconflict.（3）.Occupation—Forafatherhiss0n’sfailureishisfailure.Topreventthis,hewillchooseacareerforthesonwhichheknowsislessrisky.Asfortheson,hemightwanttotakeupchallenges.Occupationisanultimateaimofamanandhecan’tacceptanybody’sinterferenceinthatpath.Father,thus,becomestheintruderofhisson’sdreams,givingrisetotheconflict.（4）.Generationgap—Thisisoneofthemajorissuesanditbecomesworsewhenitisbetweenfatherandson.Itissobecausenobodyisreadytogiveup.Tonarrowthegenerationgap,thefathershouldacceptthewaysofnewgeneration,aschangingwithtimeisthefirstmotto(座右铭)forsuccess.Conflictinfatherandsonrelationshipcanbeamajorissueofunrestinafamily.Thus,itisbesttosolveitbeforethesituationisgrave.Theresolutionoftheproblemsliesintheunderstandingbetweenthetwo.