• 2022-05-29
    案例分析题①How to Forgive, Forget and Let Go O Forgiving someone does not mean releasing them from an earlier guilt. What if the person who wronged you is not living What if the person is someone who made you extremely embarrassed during school 20 or 30 years ago Letting go of emotional pain does not mean that nothing happened; it means that you no longer want to be controlled by it.②Recognize that forgiveness is not denial. Whatever caused the pain was a real incident. Denying that it happened means it is too painful to work through the emotions. There is no timeline on forgiveness. Some steps take longer to get through, and it is acceptable to set them aside for a period of time. Part of forgiveness is understanding whether or not someone takes responsibility for what happened, and may even show regret.③Understand that not everyone who forgives reconciles with the person who caused the pain. There are relationships that are harmful and even physically dangerous. While it is possible to forgive the past and move beyond it,it may also mean that the person who was involved can no longer play an active role in yourlife. If a person or situation is not safe,it may be best not to reconcile therelationship now. Work on forgiveness at d time when you are emotionally healthy and physically safe.④Make a conscious decision to forgive someone. Even if they never apologize for what happened, determine within yourself that it is fine to proceed without this apology. Apologies should not be asking for forgiveness. Apologies should be offered as an effort of true regret. They should be admitting that taking personal responsibility for the situation is important. Even without that apology, make up your mind to forgive, forget, and eventually let go. 1.Paragraph①()2.Paragraph②()3.Paragraph③()4.Paragraph④()A、 Forgiving should be at a safe time.B、 Forgiving is not to deny what happened.C、 Forgiving is not to free someone from blame.D、 Forgiving can happen without an apology.E、 Foigiving can lead us away from the past hurt.下列选项正确的是()
    A: ①E、②C、③B、④D
    B: ①A、②B、③D、④E
    C: ①B、②A、③C、④D
    D: ①C、②B、③A、④D
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      If you want to teach your children how to say sorry, you must be good at saying it yourself, (36)________to your own children. But how you say it can be quite tricky. If you say to your children "I’’m sorry I got (37)________with you, but..." what follows that "but" can render the apology ineffective; "I had a bad day" or "your (38)________was giving me a headache" leaves the person who has been injured feeling that he should be (39)________for his bad behavior instead of expecting an apology. Another method by which people appear to apologize without (40)________doing so is to say "I’’m sorry you’’re upset"; this suggests that you are somehow at (41)________for allowing yourself to get upset by what the other person has done. Then there is the general, all (42)________apology, which avoids the necessity of identifying a specific act that was (43)________hurtful or insulting, and which the person who is apologizing should promise never to do again. (44)________________. But even when presented with examples of genuine contrition, children still need help to become aware of the complexities of saying sorry. (45)________________. And that hitting a playmate over the head with a heavy toy requires an apology. A six-year-old might need reminding that spoiling other children’’s expectations can require an apology. A 12-year-old might need to be shown that raiding the biscuit tin without asking permission is acceptable, (46)________________.

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      What does it mean to be a singer/songwriter? A: . someone who writes and performs all one’s own music, usually without a band B: . someone who is part of a band that writes and performs all their own music C: . someone who is the lead singer in a band D: . someone who is behind the scenes and writes all the lyrics of a song, but doesn’t perform in front of an audience

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      1) How do you paraphrase the sentence “Blessed is the child’s forgiving nature” in paragraph three? 2) What does the phrase “wrought havoc on ” mean in paragraph three? 3) How do you explain the phrase “...realignment of expectations that would warm the hearts of diehard feminists” in paragraph three? 4) What does the phrase “a shared commitment” refer to in paragraph seven? 5) What does the phrase “the geek mentality” specifically refer to in paragraph eight?

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      What does the author suggest to do in the last paragraph? A: There is nothing good in success. B: Try to be happy with who you are and what you do. Try to do work that you can be proud of.

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      Why does Mr. Davis believe that you should try asking what part of the U.K. a British person is from?