Directions: You are going to read a passage with 10 statements attached to it. Each statement contains information given in one of the paragraphs. Identify the paragraph from which the information is derived. You may choose a paragraph more than once. Each paragraph is marked with a letter. A Prenup (婚前协议)May Be Right for You A) People moan and groan about prenups, and at first blush. It’s easy to see why: Couples may not want to consider how their marriage will end when they intend to be married for life. A marriage is a contract, and a prenuptial agreement is putting finer points on that contract. B) A prenup is a legal agreement that specifies how couples will divide assets in the event of divorce. It is a statement that allows for the possibility of divorce, and considers what to do in the event of a divorce. When couples marry and each has significant assets, a prenuptial agreement may be beneficial in keeping those assets divided in the event of the dissolution of the marriage. Couples who have children from previous marriages may also want to use one in order to protect assets for their children. Some religions find the prenuptial agreement morally repugnant (让人反感的). Churches, like the Roman Catholic Church, don’t ban these types of agreements but certainly do frown upon them. Since a marriage is a lifetime binding commitment to the Catholic Church, a prenup simply doesn’t make sense and appears to contradict church teachings. C) Historically, prenuptial agreements were for wealthy people who needed to protect extensive assets, a business or investments. But more and more middle class people are drafting prenups. And with so much about same-sex marriage in the news, I also have to mention that they’re not just for straight people. A 2011 survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers found that prenups had increased 73 percent over a five-year period. One interesting factoid (说法) : More women are requesting them. D) Why? For one thing, an ailing (境况不佳的) economy has people think about money more. We all know the statistic that about 50 percent of marriages end in divorce, so people are being a little more realistic about a possible split. And people are getting married later in life. The average age of first marriage in the United States is 27 for women and 29 for men, up from 23 for women and 26 for men in 1990 and 20 and 22 in 1960. Because they’re getting married older, more people have actual assets they want to protect in the event the relationship goes south. E) Here you might be tempted to say that you and your fiancé have no assets. You can’t take half of nothing, right? Not so. In fact, you can end up taking half of less than nothing – meaning your spouse’s debts could haunt you. And again, I want to point to that rising age of newlyweds – more and more people are taking liabilities to the altar – like credit card debt and student loans. It makes perfect sense that spouses would want to protect each other from any liability one has going in. You’re saying “I do,” not “I owe.” Also, you probably have some assets you haven’t thought about that you’d like to keep separate – like a retirement plan or an expected inheritance. Or what about property your parents may pass down to you and your siblings? F) Because prenups are such an emotionally charged issue, it’s important to proceed with caution; but start talking sooner rather than later. That means as you get engaged. This shouldn’t be a last-minute request for a signature outside the church. If you’re recently engaged, this is the perfect time to bring it up because you can use your taxes as an excuse. Next year, you’ll file jointly, so even though it’s uncomfortable, suggest you exchange returns as a way to start the conversation. G) Many people shy away from the perceived cost. According to a new study by The Wedding Report, the average engagement ring costs over $3,300. By comparison, the attorney fees for a prenup will probably start at about $2,000. You’ll need to contact a family attorney and both you and your betrothed will both need your own lawyer. Don’t try the do-it-yourself route on this one. Your cousin the notary is not going to cut it. Anything you draft on your own will not stand up in court. H) There are some online resources if you’re very concerned about costs and just need a simple agreement. For example, Legalzoom.com has a “prenup package” that starts at $600. Some general guidelines: When preparing a prenup, you’d of course address any property, retirement accounts, and any debt. But you should also consider sentimental belongings like furniture and other non-traditional things like pets. Sorting it out now could save you a major headache in the future. I) Also, even if a couple doesn’t draft a formal prenuptial agreement, it is critical that they have a completely honest discussion about finances prior to the “I Do’s”. That means coming clean about any outstanding debts and setting some parameters (决定因素) about how you will manage your finances as a couple. J) Many studies cite financial issues as one of the top causes of divorce – right alongside communication problems and infidelity (不忠实). Why? Frequently, couples don’t realize they have very different values around money until they’ve tied the knot and co-mingled their accounts. Don’t make that mistake! If it’s a June wedding, first go for the prenup. 1. Even without a written prenup, a couple should discuss the financial issues frankly and sincerely before the wedding ceremony.
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- Here are five tips that I’ve found, that will work towards greater job satisfaction for you. People Need You. If you find yourself wondering why you’ re even bothering to do this work when no one seems to appreciate what you do, don’ t fret. There’ s always someone who relies on you, no matter what type of work you do. So recognize that there are those who need you to do a good job. Please don’ t let down the people who depend on you. Plan Your Day Out. At the end of your shift, decide what “major fires” need putting out tomorrow, what big things could be tackled to improve you and your company. Plan out when you’ll tackle these major issues, and then stick to that plan no matter what little embers may pop up. You need to make sure your time is your own, so that you won’ t lose it by running around aimlessly. Do something different! Consistency is a good thing to have at work. But what isn’t good to have is the same routine day after day. It drags you down, it makes you tired early in the day, and it kills any motivation you have for the job. Decide on three things that you could introduce to your work that would mix it up. Then do them! Don’ t delay in this, the longer you put it off, the more the old routines will look tempting again. Talk With Your Colleagues .Get to know your colleagues a bit better each day . Share experiences with them , and they’ll realize that you’re human too, and it’s OK to talk with each other about something other than work . The more you know about your colleagues, the more you can relate to them , and the more interesting your job becomes. Take Pride. Warren Buffett said, “There will never be a greater you than you” and he told the truth. Only you can be truly satisfied with the work you do. So take pride in this work, and see that no-one else can do the job as well as you can. Every day is a chance to do something great. So do great work, in the way that only you can.
- Even when you have doubts about some people, act as if they are worthy of your best manners.() A: Although some people are rude to you, you should still he polite to them. B: Even when you suspect some people, behave courteously as if you like them. C: Even when you are not sure whether some people deserve your politeness, treat them as if they do. D: Although you don’t trust some people, you should show your politeness to them as if they are trustworthy.
- 根据录音内容填空: A: Sally, our first question today is from Andy. He says, “I’ve just started learning English. My problem is that I’m too (1)__________ to speak. My grammar is not very good, so I (2)__________ saying the wrong thing.” Have you got any advice for Andy? B: OK. Well, the first thing is I think Andy should (3)__________. A: Speaking to himself? I’m not sure that’s a good idea. B: I know it sounds silly, but talking to yourself in a (4)__________ is a really good way to practice. You don’t have to feel (5)__________, because nobody can hear you. You can talk to yourself about anything you like – what you had for breakfast, where you’re going for the weekend – anything. And the more you do it, the more you will (6)__________ hearing your own voice and your (7)__________, so you won’t feel so frightened in the classroom. Andy should try it. A: Hm, I suppose so. Anything else? What about his (8)__________? B: He has only just started learning English, so he is going to make lots of mistakes, but that’s not a problem. That’s how he’ll learn. Andy shouldn’t (9)__________. A: You’re right. So Andy, try talking to yourself, and don’t worry about making mistakes.
- If you don’t major in this field, which one is not the right way to respond to the question: Why should we hire you? A: To show your common qualities that other people also have. B: To show how you will finish your job and make profits for this company. C: To show your passion about this job. D: To show your very special skills that other people don’t have.
- Negotiating is the process by which two or more parties with different needs and goals work together to find a mutually acceptable solution to an issue. Understanding more about the negotiation process allows you to manage your negotiations with confidence and it increases . Before the negotiation, you should clearly: determine what you want and what your bottom line would be. During the negotiation, start by talking about something with which no one could disagree. You can recite that the other party will say yes to. Give them a chance to tell you what they want. They may have an offer more favorable than you expected. If you disagree with something, state your disagreement in a way. Don’t quarrel with the other party or get into a struggle. Remember negotiation does involve compromise. Unless you can get the other party to want exactly what you want, you will have to compromise. But you don’t have to compromise your principles. Negotiating is a complex process but one . If you follow the tips above, you will find the process easier.