Passage 2 Parenting is not an easy task. Becoming a parent is the easiest part, whereas, being a conscious and positive parent is a momentous task. Parenting is the most important role one faces in a lifetime. Parents who provide an encouraging environment for their children are rewarded when, as adults, their children realize a successful fit into the culture and society. Parenting concepts are deeply rooted in the majority of families in that country, because of a strong, sustained tradition of educating and training young parents to accept, perform and establish enduring relationships and responsibilities with their children. Generally, the young mother is introduced to the nuances of parenting by way of the “hands on” method at her parental home, and under the guidance of her mother or an experienced family member. This practice could be the reason why the need for professional parent education usually is not expressed. Effective parenting enables children to build and develop positive behavior and good, solid self-concepts that are important for functioning fully as a healthy adult. Parenting, as such, is greatly dependent on intra-familial issues that play a significant role in parental performance. However, parenting skills can be strengthened if parents learn about themselves as a “parent” and about children’s development. Learning about the stages of human development helps parents understand about their ever changing roles in the lives of their children and also what is expected of a parent at each stage. Finally, a father’s love and influence is as important as a mother’s in the life of a child. Fathers should overcome the internal and external barriers that exist to fulfill the duties of fathering.
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- According to the author, ______. A: becoming a parent is a very difficult task B: parenting is a difficult and important task C: becoming a parent is an important task D: parenting is an easy task
- Why are parenting concepts deeply rooted in the majority of families in that country?
- The author told this story about his son to show that when parenting, one lesson for children is that ______.
- Parents play an important role in children's _____ development through responding effectively to children's feelings. A: physical B: social C: emotional D: intellectual
- The author brings in the example of a parent striving to make life better for his children to make the point that ______. A: individual motivation would be destroyed by uniforms B: parents love their children C: uniforms cause dissension between parents and children D: parents have responsibilities to their children