I think we have worked out a ______(strategically) to deal with this situation.

Here he was stressing ________ his original principle that his unit should be used strategically.

Sunzi said: “The highest art of war is to outwit the enemy strategically. The second level is to _______ their diplomacy……”

9. __________ strategy describes a situation wherein a company chooses to strategically differentiate itself from the competition within a narrow or niche market.

Each week I receive a number of calls from parents who are concerned about their adult children. Most want to know what they can do to help. Often the parent asks, "Well, I do that, but what else can I do?" "Nothing," I respond. The following silence is deafening. Most parents don’t want to believe there is nothing they can do to straighten out their adult children. One mother asked me how she could motivate her 23-year-old son to finish school. He lived at home, was sullen and uncommunicative, didn’t work, didn’t help around the house, slept all day and was on the computer or out most of the night. His parents were doing their best trying to "motivate" him. They had just bought him a car because he had convinced them he needed one so he could job hunt. His mother was cutting out job ads and strategically placing them in his room. If you want to motivate him, I suggested, give him a month to find another place to live and mean it. At some level this mother knew it was the right thing but she just couldn’t bring herself to do it. What's the problem here? This young man has never learned how to take care of himself. He’s never had to because his parents treat him like a child – and so he remains one. If parents want their children to become mature adults they need to let them embrace life, make decisions and face the consequences of those decisions. Even when it seems guaranteed the child is heading for disaster, parents have to step back, watch and pray. Parents who treat their adult children like younger children are, in effect, saying "I don’t believe you can look after yourself, so I’ll do it." The message is "we don’t trust you to run your own life." Parents were once the centre of their child’s life. How quickly that changes! But it’s so important that parents adjust to this change. Parents must embrace a long-term vision that guides them in their decisions that will help, not hinder, their child’s development into a mature person. Part of that vision is letting the child make their own age-appropriate decisions and allowing them to face the consequences. At some point, parents must let go of their children entirely. Then, how could they let go? Mothers seem to struggle with this more than fathers. Fathers often are more willing to take a "tough love" approach sooner than mothers. But tough love is necessary if we want to give our adult children the best chance of making a go of life. I suggest that parents tell their adult children how much they love them, believe in them and know they are capable of handling life with all its inherent risks, failures and successes. Let the adult kids know you’re making some changes. No more suggestions, advice or lectures. Just listen to them, let them know you understand and that you believe they will eventually sort it out. One mother asked, "What if something terrible happens?" Something terrible might happen, or it might not. There are no guarantees. Christ tells us we will have trouble in this world. We cannot prevent our children from suffering, but we can teach them how to deal with it in a proper way.

Passage 1 College grads, 30 isn't the new 20 A It's graduation time again, and according to the National Center for Education Statistics, about 1.78 million students will walk across a stage and pick up a college diploma. Then they will face terrifying statistics about employment, pressure to make their 20s the best years of their lives, and slogans that suggest what you do right after college may not matter anyway. What not enough graduates are hearing, however, is that our 20s are life's developmental sweet spot. They matter a lot. B Katherine came to my office just before graduation. She filled her mind with day to-day drama to distract herself from her anxiety about the future. Things went multimedia as she pulled up texts and photos to share, and tweets chirped (叽叽喳喳地说) into our sessions with late-breaking news. Somewhere between updates, I found out this: She hoped to figure out what she wanted to do by age 30. By then, she joked, the economy might improve. “30 is the new 20,” she said, sounding unconvinced. C Katherine didn't invent this idea. Some researchers say the 20s are an extended adolescence; others call them "emerging adulthood". This "changing timetable" for adulthood reduces young adults to the ranks of kids, just when they need to engage the most. It doesn't help that today's students are graduating into a global financial downturn. Research shows that those who start their adult lives in hard times are inclined to believe that luck, not their own efforts, determines success. D Yet even as we dismiss -or just give up on -the twentysomething years, we are mad about them. Child celebrities and everyday kids spend their youth acting 20, while mature adults and the "Real Housewives" try to look 29, collapsing the life span into one long twentysomething ride. These are contradictory and dangerous messages. We are led to believe that the 20s don't matter, yet there is little to remind us that anything else ever will. Twentysomethings like Katherine have been caught in cheating and misunderstanding, much of which has trivialized (轻视) what is actually the defining decade of our adult lives. E Consider this: About two-thirds of lifetime wage growth happens during the first 10 years of a career, with the biggest gains coming from job-hopping or earning advanced degrees before marriage, family and mortgages (抵押贷款) take hold. Even the underemployed can take heart in knowing that wage losses disappear by about age 30 if they move through post-college jobs and degrees strategically. Personality changes for the better during our 20s more than at any other time in life, if we engage with adult roles and, as researchers say, "get along and get ahead". Good jobs may seem difficult to get, but some workplace success-even just goal setting-in our 20s is associated with greater confidence and well-being in our 20s and 30s. F More than half of Americans are married, or are dating or living with their future partner, by age 30. Along the way, loyal relationships in our 20s make us more secure and responsible-and less depressed and anxious -whether these relationships last or not. Female fertility peaks at about age 28. And the brain caps its last growth spurt in our 20s, making these years our best chance to learn to manage emotions and wire ourselves to be the adults we want to be. G Far from being an irrelevant in-between time, the 20s are a crucial period that comes only once. I know this because my sessions with those in their 30s and 40s are even more compelling than with those twentysomethings. I have witnessed the true heartache that accompanies the realization that life is not going to add up(一步步得到理想的结果) quite as they'd like. H When a lot has been left to do, the pressure is enormous to make money, get married buy a house, go to graduate school, start a business, save for college and retirement, and have children in a much shorter period of time. Many of these things are incompatible and, as the research on postponing work and family is just starting to show, harder to do all at the same time in our 30s. When it comes to love, jobs and babies, 40 is definitely not the new 30. The new midlife crisis isn't buying a red sports car. It's smart, well-meaning 40-year-olds grieving a little as they look at themselves-and at me sitting across the room- and say about their 20s,"What was I doing? What was I thinking? I New college graduates like Katherine are living with a great amount of uncertainty, which makes people anxious. It's easy to stay distracted and wait for deliverance at 30. It's almost a relief to imagine that twentysomething jobs and relationships don't count. But a career spent studying adult development tells me this isn't true And a decade of listening to young adults tells me that, deep down, they want to take their lives seriously. The 30-year-old who feel betrayed by their 20s almost always ask, “Why didn't someone tell me this sooner -like when I graduated from college?” J So here goes. I'll say what I said to Katherine. I’ll even make it short enough to tweet: 30 is not the new 20. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or do. You're deciding your life right now. (908 words) ______ 1 Faithful relationships help 20-year-olds improve their sense of security and responsibility. ______ 2 Katherine tried to escape from anxiety before graduation. ______ 3 Mature adults try to look and behave as if they were always at their 20s. ______ 4 If given another chance, many young adults would live their 20s in a serious way. ______ 5 The 20s are the best time if you want to change your personality for the better. ______ 6 Many college graduates are not in the knowledge that the 20s are an important development period in their lives. ______ 7 It is more difficult for people to finish all of big and important tasks of life in their 30s. ______ 8 The 20s are the best time for people to learn to control their emotions and become what they dream to be. ______ 9 Realizing that life has not progressed the way they expected makes 30-year-olds and 40-year-olds sad. ______ 10 People who have experienced hardships at the beginning of their adult lives tend to believe that luck rather than efforts is decisive in achieving success.